Scholars, psychologists and historians have described the “integrated” person as being unified within his or herself. There is little discrepancy between the real and desired self. Articles such as THIS describe the benefits of being integrated. Such individuals experience better results in all areas of life. It isn’t just about masculinity and femininity.
In a world that’s constantly shifting and evolving, the concept of an “integrated man” is more relevant than ever.
The man
The integrated man acknowledges that every person has inherent value, irrespective of their gender. He carries a balanced perspective concerning the strengths and weaknesses of men, women, and the nonbiary individuals. He navigates interpersonal and group dynamics while perceiving and negotiating effectively. His understanding of himself, cultivate his own strengths, and address his weaknesses often to his own advantage.
Through the process of integration, a man equips himself for the world. He becomes a more well-rounded individual who can collaborate effectively with others. His reality is ultimately enriched to the benefit of personal and professional on-goings. He leverages keen insights to contribute positively to society and manifest a desired outcome for the greater good.
Many of the strengths that have historically set man apart is the power to protect, destroy, lead and rebuild. Any of these, he can do in the face of adversity. These aren’t all that set the integrated man apart, nor are they reserved just for men. However, they represent the extraordinary potential for power and accomplishment for those who overcome the odds.
The framework
For most men to thrive in a competitive environment, a framework and concerted effort is essential in order to achieve works that stand out and be deemed “worthy” by external social measures. However, it is first the right of passage, a difficult journey in which he earns self-respect, inner peace, self-acceptance, confidence that direct his works.
The path
Unencumbered, unperturbed and unafraid, he knows he can rely on his gut, skills and grit. He holds a clear vision and executes. He is bound by is integrity, holds himself accountable, and focuses on personal growth. By goals built on this foundation, his energy, strengths and resources drive him to achieve his aspirations and full potential.
The network
A robust support network plays a pivotal role in the life of an integrated man. This network can include mentors, peers, friends, and family members who offer perspective, mentorship, feedback, and encouragement. By surrounding himself with individuals who share his values, the integrated man is better equipped to navigate challenges, seize opportunities, and grow in meaningful ways.
This is the role and goal for Interfello.